True wealth consists in having a heart that is overflowing with love, love that is flooding the places around you, making all things and all people shine brighter and brighter.
And when you have these things, then you can call yourself a wealthy person.
But as soon as love is reciprocated, one must be prepared to give up the passivity of simply being hurt to take on the responsibility of perpetrating hurt oneself.” ― “The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.” ― “Her lie was symptomatic of a certain pride she took in mocking the romantic, in being unsentimental, matter-of-fact, stoic; yet at heart she was the opposite: idealistic, dreamy, giving, and deeply attached to everything she liked verbally to dismiss as "mushy.” ― “In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it.
Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water, the need for love hallucinates a prince or princess.
” ― “To be loved by someone is to realize how much they share the same needs that lie at the heart of our own attraction to them.
Albert Camus suggested that we fall in love with people because, from the outside, they look so whole, physically whole and emotionally 'together' - when subjectively we feel dispersed and confused.They believe in it, but pretend they don’t until they’re allowed to.Most people would throw away all their cynicism if they could.Familiarity creates a new language, an in-house language of intimacy that carries reference to the story the two lovers are weaving together and that cannot be readily understood by others.” ― “..if you asked most people whether they believed in love or not, they’d probably say they didn’t. It’s just the way they defend themselves against what they want.Is there not in every coup de foudre a certain willful exaggeration of the qualities of the beloved, an exaggeration which distracts us from our habitual pessimism and focuses our energies on someone in whom we can believe in a way we have never believed in ourselves?” ― “Unrequited love may be painful, but it is safely painful, because it does not involve inflicting damage on anyone but oneself, a private pain that is as bitter-sweet as it is self-induced.Because this world, “Is not something separate from you and me; the world, society, is the relationship that we establish or seek to establish between each other.So you and I are the problems, and not the world, because the world is the projection of ourselves, and to understand the world we must understand ourselves.The people of this beautiful and magical planet need to start looking within themselves more, and outside themselves less.And each and every one of us needs to start caring more about feeling at peace, feeling content, feeling love and feeling alive, that we do about doing more and having more.